To find a partner for yourself isn’t the easiest. There’s no denying that our world is full of people who will criticize you and overlook the fact of how hard you’re working on yourself. Especially, people with good looks will always win over what’s really inside a person which makes everyone much more aware of their imperfections that we feel more flawed.
Putting all this self-doubt and loving yourself crap aside, you know that when you’ll meet the right person, you’ll try to be the best version of yourself and eventually everything will fall together. Their existence will encourage you to better yourself and they won’t try to change you. In fact, they’ll love you for who you really are.
11 signs that show you’ll be loved by your partner forever
They help you deal with your past wounds
Almost everyone in this world has been scarred by their past relationships in some way. Everyone just has a different coping mechanism. We need to understand that every person’s emotions are different, and they heal in their own special ways. Your partners are the ones that help you through the process and understand no matter how you do it or how long you might take. They’ll be there for you.
They give you a second chance
Your partner knows that everyone makes mistakes and nobody’s perfect. They truly love you and believe that you’re worthy of another chance to prove yourself. It’s not a sign of weakness but a sign of strength instead which depicts they have a healthy personality.
They don’t hold grudges
Holding grudges is a waste of energy and eventually turns you into a petty person. People who hold grudges can’t really give you the love you deserve, and no good person holds grudges. Your partner will find a reason to forgive you and give you another chance to make them forget how you wronged them.
They are understanding of your mood swings
It’s no news that people can get on your nerves even if you love them to death. It can either be because of a bad day or a rough week but they’ll be understanding of your sporadic mood swings because they know you’re human and you’re allowed to act like that sometimes.
They don’t try to change you
You don’t change the people you love because you fall in love with who they are in the first place. When a partner has fallen in love with who you really are, they won’t find the need to change you according to their requirements. They’ll be supportive of you.
They give you space
Sometimes, having a partner at all times can be suffocating and a good partner knows that you need some time to yourself. It’s a sign of a healthy relationship.
They don’t try to control you
A sign of an unhealthy relationship is when we try to cage a person out of fear of losing them. Therefore, if a partner trusts you and lets you be free it means your partner is aware of unhealthy behaviors and lets you be yourself.
They don’t expect you to always be your best self
Everyone has a not so good a person moment every now and then, but this doesn’t change who you are for your partner and they won’t judge you for being unhappy for a day or two.
They support you
A real partner will support your dreams and will help you achieve them. They’ll respect what you want and your opinions.
Age is just a number
Pretty self-explanatory, you’ll be happy with anyone you love – age doesn’t matter.
Physical importance isn’t as important as your inner beauty
They’ll love you for who you are regardless of your wrinkles, stretch marks and whatnot. They’ll love you for the things that actually matter like your heart, personality and good intentions. That’s all one can ask for in a good partner to spend the rest of their life loving.