Sometimes in life there comes a time when we separate from the one, we thought as our soulmate. We think this person will stay with us forever, but it does not happen, and the relationship ends.
The relationship we share with them is very important and intimate. For anyone who has ever stayed in a relationship closeness and connection are the key things.
At times things just go wrong. When two soul mates break up, it hurts both the parties. They go their own ways and it becomes hard for them to survive. This time becomes hard for the soul mates because they are meant to be together. It is painful even when one must realize when the relationship is over.
The person goes through the following 8 things when they are not with their soul mate.
You’ll become a different person
Some heartbreak leaves you broken inside out. You change within minutes and seconds even. You do not realize but if you look in the mirror you will find a different person. The pain changes you without even realizing. It does not matter if the pain was big or small. It just hurts you from inside.
You’ll feel extreme amounts of pain
Separating from your soulmate will cause you pain. And it will be in extreme amounts. It makes you sad and even depressed. It is like losing yourself in this separation. It does get better with time however does not always go away as it should.
Your idea of what love should look like will change
Separation from your soulmate will cause you to look at the world differently. You will have a different perspective regarding love. It does make you think that love will not be a part of your life, that is not entirely true. But it will make you a true appreciator. You will appreciate little things people do in relationships.
You’ll feel like you are barely living for a long time
Moving from a relationship that you cherish brings down hell on you. You look at your life as an outside person. You run away from people because you find it hard to face them while your life falls apart. This too shall pass, and we must remember this.
You’ll become strangers
It was hard to stay friends with your ex. No matter what you do the feelings just do not die. Either you are a soulmate, or you are nothing. There is no other relationship. Do not think that from a soul mate you will easily turn to friends.
You’ll always think of them from time to time no matter how much time has passed
Your past will keep coming to you. It is like flashes that you will see from time to time. Feel the feelings and if possible, cry your heart out. No point avoiding them. Even though the other person will be on your mind all the time.
You’ll move on with your life because you have no other choice
Life moves on just like people do. Even if you have moved on with your soulmate, you can still go ahead and live your life. Your life should not stop. Live and let live.
You’ll find love again, but it won’t be the same
The love and relationship you share with your soulmate are different. It is like you love them with all your heart. Love finds you in life. But you always keep comparing it to the previous love with your soulmate. Every love is different, and you must cherish it. Go and enjoy your newfound love.