For some people the thought of being single scares them, they wonder how they will cope being alone and not having a partner in their life. The single life isn’t for everyone, but if you try it you might find yourself embracing it and using that time for your own personal growth.
Having someone in your life should be about partnership, supporting each other, and building a future. However, if you find the relationship is weighing you down and making you unhappy you really should think of your well-being and call it a day.
9 Reasons Why You Should Not Fear Being Single:
- You are able to get to know yourself better.
Being single means you get to know yourself for who you really are rather than being part of a couple. You can use this time to work through any baggage you may be carrying and to figure out what you truly want from life.
- Being single allows you to focus more on yourself.
Instead of having to worry about a partnership you only have yourself to concentrate on. If you want to do something you do it, if you don’t want to spend time with people you don’t have to and you have no one to explain yourself too.
- You find true happiness.
It’s a myth that you need someone to make you complete. You complete yourself and you find that by doing what makes you happy. Having control over your life and making decisions that you know is best for you is one of the biggest steps towards happiness.
- You learn how to overcome things on your own and gain a deeper sense of independence.
Being alone makes you more independent, you have a better understanding of what you want, that could be changing your career, going back to school the world is really for the taking it’s up to you what you do to change your life for the better.
- As a single person, you’re not settling for someone toxic.
Anyone who has been in a toxic relationship will know the relief when it ends. Taking time being single after such a relationship gives you time to heal and become stronger so that when you are ready to date again your heart and mind know exactly what is best for you.
- You don’t have to answer to anyone else or worry as much about others when you’re single.
You can make plans or not, you can have a duvet day, go hiking, eat what you want, drink what you want, basically do anything and have no one to answer too.
- You can when single accomplish more before settling down.
Being single for a while allows you to get things done that you have been putting off. Feeling good about yourself before thinking about settling down.
- Being single lets you focus more on friendships.
Being single gives you time to spend with friends that perhaps you haven’t seen so much of because you were in a relationship. You can cultivate new friendships that perhaps if you were part of a couple wouldn’t have happened.
- You can do literally whatever you want and really align properly with your dreams.
You can concentrate on making your dreams come true, you will see a clear path and have the time and energy to get where you want to be.