It’ll be easy for you to recognize a girl that cares about you because she’ll be willing to do anything to make things work. If you think she’s fighting over things that might not look so serious to you or if she gets upset, it’s only because she cares. She overthinks everything about her relationship with you and tries her best to make everything work.
You’re everything to her – remember this every time you get tired of her overacting. She’s only overreacting over the things that you do because she wants to share wants the best for your life together. She doesn’t want anything hidden between the two of you because you’re all that matters to her.
She wants to sort things out right there and then when something happens. She doesn’t want to prolong fights. Sorting things out together strengthens the bond between two people and she knows it’ll only bring you two closer. The closer you are, the better the chances of you two ending up together for life.
You should understand that every time she shows strong emotions it’s because she wants to fight for your relationship. Understand that it’s only because you matter to her. Many men fail to understand this on time. The only time a woman will stop putting in the same effort that she used to or stop giving her best to you is when she realizes you’re not worth her time and energy.
She realized that you won’t ever appreciate her efforts and for that reason, she will stop fighting for you. Her fantasies were hit by harsh reality and she finally woke up. She sees that you’re not the person she actually wanted and you’ll never change either. She understands that she deserves to have someone who will see her. When she stops getting mad, when she stops questioning you, when she stops fighting for your love, know that she’s over you.
She’s moved on and she now knows that your relationship isn’t going to last. You were once everything to her but now she knows you’re not worth her efforts. There will come a time when she’ll look you in the eye and tell you she’s leaving and that she’s made this decision a long time ago.
She decided to choose a separate path from you because now she’s aware that she deserves better. It wasn’t easy for her – she cried for days, she did her grieving, she put in all her final efforts with you, but once she was done with all of that, she was also done with you.
She’s ready to start a new chapter in her life without you.
You knew she was going to hit rock bottom one day and you still didn’t bother to change. She kept explaining what she didn’t like about you, but you never took her seriously. She kept fighting for the relationship, but you never took the time to sort things out with her. You kept thinking she was overreacting over the smallest things and you never once stopped to think how much those things mattered to her.
She kept begging you for attention, for you to listen to her, but it was all some joke to you. You took her and all of her efforts for granted, and now they’re gone with her. So, next time you ask yourself what went wrong or what you could’ve done to make things better – think of all the times you ignored all these signs.
You’ll know when she’s made her decision because you’ll know she doesn’t care anymore.